Seth,
Good for you to put up that equipment on ebay. PM me on what you need to get out of that JVC. What do you have in the meantime for surround? Didn't you sell your Yamaha?
I almost pulled the plug on the Onkyo 805 - my buddy is an installer and can get me anything at cost (I probably shouldn't have told you mooches this). I can get the 805 at $695 plus shipping, but I may wait for the 875 with better video processing. It won't be out for awhile, and I can still use an interim 5 channel AVR.
The biggest lesson here is letting go of addictions that we label as hobbies. I wish I could label my beer drinking as a hobby, but every time I try to squeeze into my 36" shorts, I'm reminded of this beer addiction.
Seth - Amen for you to come out and get this off your back. Man, that's hard to do, but I think we all respect you that much more for saying whats on your mind. It's so hard to do that behind a monitor where you can "paint a picture" of who you want to be instead of "who you really are." You'll go far in life, my friend. Don't change a bit. Honesty goes a long way.