For leading us on then screwing us over, 'eff you, HD. Good riddance.
I feel for you on this, but you can't place blame on them at all.
HD DVD was never going to be cheaper for disc production. It was most definitely argued by fanboys, but never was claimed by studios or manufacturers.
Why? Because discs are little pieces of plastic with some emulsion layers on it that are stamped.
The difference in raw materials amounts to a penny or less between CD and Blu-ray or HD DVD. It's nothing!
The biggest costs with production are the mastering of the disc (labor intensive) and the hardware costs and disc setup costs.
The hardware costs for a Blu-ray line are prohibitive... but the end result is a disc production cost that is a dime or two within the cost of HD DVD. These numbers have been gone over many times and verified many times by multiple sources.
For a studio, if they sell twice as many discs on one format, as is consistently the case with Blu-ray, and they only pay 10% more to make the discs, then they end up with far more profits from the one format even if selling at the same price.
This should never have been questioned.
What's more amazing is the aggressive nature of the BD marketing which has been pushing BOGO sales at places like Amazon for some really new titles. I got the Pirates movies with this special, as well as the 4 Harry Potter movies. In fact, I have about 25+ movies now, and I probably spend no more than $15 a disc per movie. Nowhere near the MSRP - and barely more than DVD pricing.
No, HD DVD did not make promises. They produced movies and left it up to people on websites to say what would be the end result to consumers. Others, myself included, said just as firmly that those people were wrong, and explained our reason why.
Yet, a format war is always something that will have a certain amount of doubt.
In this case, HD DVD went to discount hardware while Blu-ray was discounting software. Software has always driven hardware sales, and cheaper software sells far better than expensive software. It just is a smarter strategy. Yes, you may end up with more HD DVD players, but nobody wants to buy movies when they cost so much so sales are held back and studios see the competition selling far more and wonder why they aren't in that camp... or both camps.
It just sucks for some, but nobody who did some homework can't say "I didn't know that HD DVD had less studio and CE support." Since that's been a huge factor, if not the only factor, it has all really played out as some of us have expected.
Yes, it still has a lot of playing out to do.