No kidding. You spend all this time and money to build a system with a flat response, and then discover that the music was meant to be heard in a car or on a clock radio.
Sheep, I shouldn't have to turn down the bass to like a song. I am a bass pig!

When deep powerfull bass is done right it puts a huge grin on my face. I just can't stand when it muddies up the recording.
My taste in music is best described as "anything that sounds good". Unfortunately even as all encompassing as that is, it is begining to limit what I can stand on my set-up. Funny thing though, I still jam those songs in the car.
The other problem with it is the louder is better mentality with the recording studios. I absolutly can't stand when a singer's mixed at +0db and begins to sound as if my amp is clipping.
I am glad to see that I'm not the only one being annoyed by this.