Auditioning speakers need not be a huge headache,you can over audition & over think the whole process by listening to too many different speakers trying to get the best value & best sound.
Try a different approach,pick manufacturers that have a good rep for quality/price/service & performance that you can audition in your area,then further narrow down the list by selecting one model from each manufacturer,then narrow the list down even further by the specs of the speaker & what will work best with your gear for power handeling,forget any review that you read online or in any forum,pro reviewers are being paid to gush in the review & owners write rave reviews because they own that model,reviews are not to be trusted ever.
Take a notebook with you & write down your observations of each speaker,dont forget to log all the things you like best about each model & especially what your 1st impression of each speaker was,in my experience with audio there is no better barometer to gauge long term satisfaction with a speaker than your 1st impression,if your blown away at 1st listen chances are that you have a winner but if the speaker is lacking ANYTHING take a big pass on that model.
The hardest thing about buying new speakers/gear is to learn to trust your own ears & leave other people's oponions behind.
Also,dont be afraid of Audiogon.com,buying & auditioning used hi end gear is easy & informative,use the search function with your zip code on Audiogon to look for used hi end speakers in your budget,most sellers welcome in home demo's & take extra good care of their gear,even if you dont buy the used speakers you audition i find that most audiophiles are happy to have new people over to show off their systems & will not be angry if you dont buy,plus its a great way to turn a $1,000 budget into a $5,000 pair of speakers.