I agree, the Speakercraft are pretty expensive. But since I may be limited to ceiling speakers, I've heard too many horror stories about cheap in-ceiling speakers to not go with a good brand. Of course, if there is a cheaper alternative that I'm not thinking about, I'm all ears.
Mazersteven, if you have any insight into your setup and in-ceiling speakers, I'd love to hear it.
I have four inceiling Definitive Technology Bipolar speakers for my surrounds. They are pretty expensive also, Ipaid $400/pair 6 years ago. New ones are close to double. You can get decent fronts fro what Speakercraft or Def Tech in-celining speakers cost.
I would still get front towers or good bookshelfs. Your front speakers are most important decide on a buget number and spend 50% of your money on the fronts.
If you watch TV and Moviesthe center is important for dialog and it should match the fronts to provide timbre ( seamless front sound)
The subwoofer adds lower frequencies and can be added later.
The surrounds can bein-ceiling, but are for enhancement and don't haveto be the same size or quality as the fronts ( true purists want all speakers the exact same, but it costs a lot more).
The entry Yamaha or Onkyo are very good AVRs. It sound like you want one that has "repeating" HMDI so that sound will play from your AVR with just the HMI cable connection. "Passthrough" HDMI only connectsthevidoe and does not process the HMDI signal for audio; you will need separate audio connections. To get repeating HDMI you are talking $3-400.
Two things first find out if your wife is open to the idea of front towers or fornt bookshlef speakers ( this will sound better) and a front center speaker. If not you can get pretty good sound from in-ceiling speakers.
Second, come up with a budget range of what you can spend. Are you looking at $500, $1000, $2000. Does it include TV, Blu Ray, AVR and speakers ?
Good Luck!
Forrest Man.