It would be nice to get a handle on the tin whisker problem. You can't get a handle here, because you don't know the increase in popularity of the site. The number of posts about fault equipment seems to be increasing, but there obviously could be multiple reasons for that.
I have a feeling this is going to be bad news for purchasers of new equipment. The problem will be hard to track, as I bet there will be no thorough attempts to actually find was has caused equipment failures like to OP's.
A comparison of warranty claims, and equipment failures in the first three years of service before and after June 2006 manufacture would be interesting, and also keeping tabs on equipment life curves.
I can't believe this isn't the next consumer raw deal. I have tried lead free solder and its awful stuff! And buy the way they found that out in World War I, which is why the lead was added! As you know military equipment is exempt from the reg, in fact it must not contain lead free solder. I think that speaks volumes.
If this RoHS compliance reg causes shortened life cycles of electronic equipment, it will cause far more environmental damage than the lead.