Yes, this is an ambitious project. As Isiberian suggests, I would stick with the speaker mods first. I haven't done that sort of thing before, so I can't comment on his directions, other than to say that he knows what he's talking about.
As for the DCX, I bought one a few months ago to incorporate into my 2-channel system. I've crossed over a pair of subs with my mains through it, but have not done any equalizing yet. That will come later, when I have more time. My subwoofers are DIY and because I'm using an EP2000 to power them, there is no high-pass filter to protect the drivers. The DCX has that feature and although the lowest you can set it is 20Hz, it's fine for my application, because this is a system for music only.
For HT purposes, that is a bit high, as movie LFE can go below that frequency. Of course, you need a very capable subwoofer to get useful output below 20 Hz anyway. So, if you don't have a sub that reaches those depths, it doesn't really matter.
You will need to adapt balanced (TRS) connections on the DCX to unbalanced (RCA) connections on your receiver. I use RCA interconnect cables and TRS/RCA adaptors from Parts Express. This conversion introduces the risk of a ground loop and the resultant hum. I didn't get that, so I consider myself fortunate.
There is also the fact that professional components operate on a different gain than typical consumer components. You may hear a "hiss" from your speakers because of it. However, the gain is adjustable and you may be able to compensate for the difference.
If you have a recent multi-channel receiver, with its own sub output and crossover, and room correction like YPAO or Audessey, I'm not sure I'd bother with the DCX. It is
not user friendly for people who are not used to pro-components. It took me a while just to figure out how to set the crossover frequencies. As I said, I haven't tried equalizing yet and I predict that there will be quite a few headaches for me when I try.
I suggest you download the manual and the operating software from the Behringer website. Read over the manual and play with the software; that will give you an idea of what you'll be facing. I found the manual difficult to understand, but perhaps you won't.
Having said all of that, I really like it for how well my subs blend with my mains. You wouldn't know they were there - until you play a good recording of Tchaikovsky's "1812 Overture" at an "elevated volume" and come to the finale's climax - the firing of the cannon.
You just
know that those crashes aren't coming from the mains...
Anyway, good luck with your project!