I don't know many parents that would trust a kid to build a $7k HT rig out of raw materials and drivers. You'd be surprised at how money can add up due to waste and mistakes, as well as trial and error.
IMHO you'll do better to research pre-made stuff A LOT, go do some serious listening, get some first hand advice from anyone you can, then think about how far into DIY you want to be. Maybe you'd like to be a big part of the turnout and be impressed with your newfound knowledge and abilities, but taking a step in over your head isn't pretty.
Being a beginner, maybe you'd have good luck with a premade speaker that is common to upgrade, like the BIC DV-62i, although for a whole setup you still would have money left afterwards with a $7k budget. But let's not forget, the equipment is not the only important part of a system, the room, the cables (good quality not snake oil), the environment, the lighting, and proper mounting and positioning for the speakers, are all just as important.
As far as being a big part of the turnout of your system goes, a great thing to learn about and allow budget for are DIY room treatments, which are much easier to build than a speaker system. The right room can make mediocre speakers shine as compared to good speakers in a bad room.
Our whole hobby is a constant state of DIY, so never worry yourself that you aren't a big part of a superior sounding system. When you shop around and listen to the garbage that people allow thier ears to be subject to, you won't lack faith in my statement. You will notice as you gain expierience that taking the time and effort to put the right components together the right way make a huge difference in the final product. You may find that to be enough DIY.