Methost,
The XSub works very hard and trys to play beyond it's capability. How do you have it calibrated? In my room 2000 cube with an opening, I drove it to distress many times, but no chuffing or bottoming (it did try to walk a few times). I always was on the minus side on receiver trim and about 11:00 on the sub gain, calibrated to 75-78db @ -10 MV (playback rarely more than -21). Something like Hitchhikers or WotW with subsonic content was a stretch for the little guy. I'd say you probably need to back off the volume a bit, maybe drop the crossover and trim the 50hz filter. Basically, run lean so it doesn't work as hard.