OP, I do know what you're talking about. and what i'm talking about.
I saw your tread on that "other" site and don't understand why you don't understand what's being said there as well.
What part of that $80 Russound switch or a bunch of DPDT switches with an "on-off-on", or "break before make" configuration don't you understand? If you've got any skills at all, and any grasp on the situation, that second solution might be just the answer, if you don't mind flipping a few switches.