1st off, welcome to the boards!
2nd off, I can't see you picture links. If you want to embed pics use the
tags (put the url in between the brackets).
All right, so you have a since LFE out on your Onkyo, and a stereo input on your sub? For example:
You see how in the bottom right there are the red-white jacks, and then there is a single LFE jack below that? If you can find this jack on your sub, you just need to connect a cable from the single jack to the head-unit. It might be hiding somewhere on your sub's amp.
If you can't find a LFE input, that is fine, you should simply get a Y cable with male ends. I have one that I connect my iPod dock to the stereo inputs on my receiver with, and it should work for you as well. You don't have to buy the Monster Cable version, as this is a rip-off. Just get the Radioshak version, or buy one
here.
HTH!