They both are using two polarized prongs. As for the multimeter, I have one, but have very little experience with them.
From your description it seems there is no ground. That confirms my suspicion that one of the units is leaking stray voltage to a chassis. It should not do that.
First check your outlets, including the surge unit. Put your voltmeter on the 300 AC volt range. Now put the red probe in the short power slot and the black in the long slot. You should get a reading of 120 volts. Now put the black in the ground keeping the red in the short slot, you should still get 120 volts. Now keeping the black probe in the ground put the red in the long slot, which is the neutral, you should not see a meter deflection. Put the meter on the 1 or three volt range keeping the last probe arrangement, and you should have a reading of 0 or no more than 0.5 volt.
Do this for all outlets connected to your system and a surge bar outlet. If the readings are significantly different from what I'm describing then report back for further advice.
If you get the readings I describe proceed as follows.
Disconnect your sub from your system and everything else. Play your receiver hard while you connect your multimeter between the chassis of the receiver and ground. You will need to try all voltage ranges starting with the 300 range and going lower. Start with the DC range. If you don't measure any voltage, then repeat on the AC range. If you see any voltage between the chassis and ground the receiver needs service.
Now put the sub back into the system playing it hard and repeat the whole procedure again. If you record a voltage between chassis and ground then the sub is the problem. If this does not find the problem then add the other units you mentioned back one by one and repeat the procedure each time you add back a unit. If you find stray voltage on a chassis, DO NOT TRY TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM BY GROUNDING A CHASSIS. Take the defective unit in for service or preferably junk it.