It's really subjective, and there is no right answer in my opinion. While I definitely don't have the expertise of a lot of the people on the forum, I know what I prefer. My room is no where near as big as your room 17x15. I went with dipoles for my surrounds because I like the effect it has in my listening environment. I am one the of the few people who probably listens to music in multichannel. When I am listening to a live "In concert" CD, I prefer my music from my surrounds to be dipole, because to me, it better simulates a live concert arena. It also has to do with the fact that I am in a smaller listening environment.
I also like the effect they have on movies, as I originally had direct speakers. I wanted very diffuse and enveloping surround sound effect. Again, with a room your size you do have some more options. In a room your size I would probably go direct for the rears depending on your room set up
I also listen to music in multichannel (when I can get it), and I agree that the dipole/bipole/monopole issue for surrounds is subjective, though I have had dipoles and I prefer monopoles in my surround system. Of course, this sort of thing is not fairly compared, as one does not get speakers that are otherwise identical and then switch back and forth for comparison. I like having identical speakers for all channels (other than subwoofer, obviously).
But in my main two channel system, I use
dipoles.
To the OP:
There is no consensus about what type of surround speakers one should use, or, for that matter, what type of main speakers one should use. With, for example, a Magnepan system, one would have dipoles for all channels (other than subwoofer). Many brands make monopoles for the front channels while making dipole or bipole speakers for surround use. Still others make just monopoles for all channels.
You should try to listen to a variety of systems and decide what you think is best for yourself. Of course, the quality of the speakers may affect your selection, as well as the acoustics of the space in question. Ultimately, this is a matter of preference more than anything else.