Well, a lot of people (especially on AH) don't really believe in speaker break-in. They tend to think that it is reather your ears breaking in to the new speakers. I tend to believe in breakin, the polymers will stretch and outgas etc (think new car smell), but whether or not it is an audible difference is open to debate.
I think you made a fine speaker choice. Ultimately, it is your choice and your $, so don't worry if someone else isn't happy with your choice.
As far as the amp, I highly doubt there will truly be an improvement unless you are in a larger room and/or like it LOUD.
When you have your mind made up beforehand that the amp WILL be an improvement, then you WILL hear an improvement, whether it is real or in your head. Human bias is a biotch to beat.
That being said, if an amp makes you feel better or you "think" it will make these speakers sound better, then go for it! A good amp makes a good long-term investment, and you will have it for the next time you want to upgrade speakers. Quality amps mean you don't have to worry about driving more difficult loads in the future.