I don't think it's fair to simply discount a person because they are interested in different aspects of the hobby than you are. I believe that there are many components to audiophilia, and each can be just as valid as another. Sure, many people enjoy the music just for the sake of the music. But reproduction, technology, and so on are just as important. Many people around here are very astute in knowing and reciting specs of certain equipment, and that's just another aspect of it. In the end, the music itself is only one part of the entire picture. Indeed, one could even argue that the music isn't actually necessary, and that the equipmenet itself could be measured and auditioned for accuracy using test tones generated from a computer, that it would have value simply for the way it measures, and that a person could gain happiness for working with that equipment. I believe that that's a part of the hobby as well, and is valuable in and of itself. Why not?
I found a couple definitions for "audiophile", as listed here:
- A person who is enthusiastic about high-fidelity sound reproduction
- A person with an interest in high fidelity sound reproduction and its associated technology.
From those, and from logic in general, it seems that simply enjoying music, regardless of its quality (and one could consider the performance, the recording and the playback as contributors to "quality"), doesn't make one an "audiophile". Audiophiles are also interested in accuracy and technology as related to music. I enjoy music coming from a pair of PC speakers, or a pair of earbuds -- and it can be moving, but I don't necessarily think that makes one an "audiophile".
And I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with even going so far as to ignore the music itself in pursuit of a perfect system. If that's the path one wants to take the hobby, so be it. What makes that path wrong and the path of the "music lover" right? If they are missing out on enjoying the music, perhaps the other guy is missing out on enjoying the equipment. They are both parts of the puzzle, they both have their merits, they both have their fans.