The thing that dries me about apple is that they’re the largest company on earth and we had to wait until 2020 for silicone tipped earbuds?!?!?! Cmon...
Having said that, Ive been in the ecosystem for a looong time and find that Apple products just work. The regular AirPods sound pretty good as long as you can get a good seal in the ear canal. That’s been the biggest problem for me. Integration, ease of use and call quality are excellent. The tech in them, imo is amazing. Call quality might not matter for her, but for me it’s important and apples AirPods are great in this regard.
So, IMO if she has the money, and her sites set, it’s likely a good long term investment. I also appreciate bringing the question here. I remember one time my oldest son wanted to buy a pair of beats. I explained 10,000 reasons why they weren’t gonna be a good long term investment. Long story short, he wasn’t gonna have anything else despite my best efforts. And his beats lasted about two months...
fwiw I bought a pair of mpow m30 from Amazon for 30 bucks. Gotta say, they are light, fit great, have good Siri integration and work similar to apple’s pods. Others have reported call quality to be good overall. Oh yeah, I was especially surprised at SQ. Not the same as my shure 215’s but very similar to my apples. And 1000 times more convenient. Pairing is quick and consistent. Not trying to sway you, just sharing an alternative with experience.
Wireless Earbuds, Mpow M30 in-Ear Bluetooth Headphones, Immersive Bass Sound, IPX8 Waterproof Sport Earphones, Touch Control Bluetooth Earbuds, 25 Hrs w/USB-C Charging Case/Twin&Mono Mode/Mics,Black
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0832GH4WF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_rF.nFb88HEP9A