Hey Babel, you still have a an invite to come over to my house and listen to my system, and see how you feel about it... Don't forget, Drinks are on me...
I encourage you to go listen to as many speakers as you can...
I ended up with Paradigms, as they fit my budget or a bit below, sounded great to me compared with what I had in my area, without going to ID brands....
Now for something completely different, you can also add the newly redesigned Swans to the mix...
http://theaudioinsider.com/
Pretty speakers, and also get great reviews...
