It sounds like he was unable to find a kit with a fit and finish he and his wife could agree on, or thought was high enough quality in terms of finish.
....Yet he ended up with one of those SVS cylinder things


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Not sure what kits he could have been looking at, but the Dayton, Madisound, etc., subs & mains all have excellent fit 'n finish (seams/joints, woodgrain, polish, etc.)....often
better than off the shelf finished brands. Plus I think he might be conflating "fit 'n finish" with
aesthetics. Yes, the (sub) kits are often just a black cube box (like the Dayton I linked). Of course, I don't like those either...

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I'm surprised you haven't made your recommendation of the rythmic sub paired with the iKea thing you discovered.
Because I have no idea if those would meet his (subjective/undefined) "fit 'n finish" standards...which may well actually translate to be...aesthetics. I linked those as an idea of "maybe how to"...not so much "do this" per se. Ikea is a gold mine for such items (weaved chests, baskets, etc, etc.)....but none might meet his aesthetics....err...fit 'n finish...either.
Maybe he needs to get the Mrs. involved
Some negative rep character thinks it's bad advise for the OP to get the Studio 100s and test them with and without the subwoofer and make HIS OWN DECISION on whether it sounds good with or without the subwoofer.
And it's such a wonder why your rep is in the red.
Btw, you know talking to oneself is possibly a sign of madness
