Your friend is mistaken and does not know how an amp works.

Without plugging the RCAs or XLRs from the receiver or pre/pro into the amp there is no audio signal passing through the amplifier. I'm not sure how your friend has rigged up an amp before with no RCA's or XLR's being plugged into it, but if he/she ever did such a thing then all they managed to do was create a big paper weight that was also wasting electricity in the process.
Bottom line, either you use the internal amp to power your speakers, or you add an amplifier in between the receiver and speakers to power them. That's pretty much the gist of it. Also, if your friend tries to get you to bi-wire or (passively) bi-amp your speakers, that's also a load of hokum and more or less worthless.