Why would a speaker sound lifeless with a flat frequency response? My interpretation of "flat" is: If a sine wave is output at frequncy "F" at a given amplitude, at "F+x"(x=any real number) it's output is the same amplitude.. In other words, sine wave's at different frequencies, with the same amplitude should be equal in relation to each other. When actual sound is played, the sound will not be "flat", but exactly as the engineer intended it to be, assuming he/she is using equipment with a flat response. That is what I understand to be "flat".
I also noticed that you mention speakers with +/- 1.7 dB response, which I think is very close to 0. Perhaps as close to 0 as they can get throughout the entire frequency range that they are capable of playing in.