In my models with the Trio 12 I would say that 500 watts is simply too much power for that woofer and I agree with lsiberian that it is much too big an enclosure. It does best with around 300 watts rms. Reduce the volume first and foremost, then look to lower power as needed, but you will probably be fine in simply reducing the volume available. The woofer itself is relatively decent when used in the correct enclosure size. If CSS recommended that enclosure I would be curious as to why.
As for drivers, there are so many options out there depending upon your price point. I know that I am leaning towards giving a pair of 12"
Pierce Audio Products a spin in a dual opposed configuration at some point in the near future.
The Dayton Ultimax 12" also looks interesting though the enclosure recommendations/models are a bit high.
Then again the brand new
JL Audio 12W6v3 looks really nice in a 3.5ft^3 enclosure at 21hz tuning even if it is a bit pricey. Their motor & suspension linearity combined with ultra low power compression make them great options/performers too.