I would agree if were were actually talking about connecting a steel contact to an aluminum one, or copper to aluminum outdoors, or using bare copper alone. But, sorry, that's not the case. No steel or aluminum mentioned, and as far as I can tell, we aren't outdoors. We have 24K gold, high point contact pressure screws, and then copper.
You are correct given the situations you cite, they just don't apply here. I would also point out that the electrolyte between the steel nails and aluminum siding (or any other outdoor dissimilar menials) is water.
Your thousands of connections pale by comparison to phone companies making billions, relatively low voltage, bare copper, non-plated, non-treated. The difference is, they are high contact point pressure, and not exposed to moisture, not typically outdoors.
The discussion was about trying to seal gold plated banana plugs against corrosion, I believe indoors, which is simply a non-issue.