Buy an ATI amp, which is dead silent.
Not quite DEAD silent, Acu. If I physically press my ear against my speakers' tweeters, I can make out an extremely soft hiss from my AT1805...
In actual seriousness, though, you might actually have a slightly defective amp. It's a possibility. A forum member a few months back had a similar situation with his XPA-5. Three of the channels produced a normal, very soft hiss that he could only make out from a few inches away. That's perfectly normal for most amps. But two of the channels produced an audible hiss that he could hear from his seat. That is NOT normal, and after finally getting a replacement from Emotiva, he now has a properly functioning XPA-5 that is silent at seating distance, and only produces a soft hiss that can only be heard if he's within a few inches of the speakers.
Try connecting just one speaker, and connect that one speaker to each output on your Emotiva amp. Try to discern if one or two of the channels are significantly louder than the others. If they are, then you have a couple of defective boards, and you should be firm with Emotiva until they send you a replacement.
I know that Emotiva's customer service is less than stellar sometimes. Seems to be one guy named Vincent who causes all the problems. Just ask to speak with Lonnie Vaughn and deal with him right from the get go. He'll take care of you if it really is a defective amp.
Again, a very slight hiss IS normal. But it should be very quiet or completely inaudible from your seat. And particularly if one or two channels are louder than the others. That's a sure sign of something being wrong with the amp. Talk to Lonnie and get a replacement
A 100% properly functioning XPA amp is darn good, and should be very pleasing in all aspects.