I looked at the photos of your system. Very impressive. I like having guys like you around. As with ATDG, I feel so practical and thrifty by comparison.
Thank you! I'm actually going to back the way you are using your sub and HPF.
I suspect it does have a bloated low end.
This goes to the heart of why I recommend using active crossovers in the bass where possible. If you do use passive not putting a crossover below 350 Hz at least.
You won't find the problem in standard measurements. The problem goes to Q.
You can tell from published measurements, that those bass driver are three eight ohm units in parallel, giving an impedance of 3 ohms over their operating range, except for the tuning peak.
Now the values of the two series inductors to make the fourth order low pass filter are going to be very high value. Even with iron cores there will be a long length of wire. Even if you use very high cost inductors there is going to be a DC resistance of 0.5 to 1 ohm range likely closer to 1 ohm.
So the inductors resistance will be a significant proportion of the DC resistance of the speakers.
When you put a a series resistance that big in the woofer drive, you raise driver Q drastically. Total Q can never be lower than driver Q.
The result is a high Q bass, which to me and apparently to you sounds bloated.
I have played with this in the past and you can not get a nice tight bass with this approach.
This does not bother a lot of listeners, in fact some expect it, but it drives me nuts.