I will say that I don't get it. Any of it really.
While I don't begrude my dad the money he has earned throughout his life and I don't feel entitled to one cent of it, I also don't get how people can ignore their family if their family is in need, or at least show consideration for their family.
Of course some family members can be douchebags... So be it. Ef em!
But, if you get along with your family, it seems to be pretty backwards to put them second.
Considering the cause, I guess it shouldn't suprise me at all, but it is exactly that type of thought which is exactly what is expected I suppose. Live by what is said, not by what is actually written.