I really do believe alot of stuff is marketing. I just have an extreme budget in hopes that I find that perfect speaker (I know I doubt it).
Well there is no perfect speaker, no matter how much you spend.
If you do want a significant improvement over what you have, you need to look into things that break the rules. It may be time to get away from thinking money can buy what you want, and instead do the research necessary to know what speakers sound excellent.
For starters you should probably get away from
-Speakers with poor off axis response. Even if it seems to sound good during an audition at the sweet spot, it's just a waste of time.
-Monopole box speakers. Look into open baffle dipole, bipole transmission line, omnipole etc type speakers.
-Passive speakers. You need to look into actively bi and tri amped speakers that don't have an internal passive crossover.
-Passive speakers designed for bi-amping or bi-wiring. yeah..um... no.
-Passive speakers that have impedance dips below 3 ohms with sharp electrical phase angles. Why look for a speaker that requires a $40000 boulder amp to make it sound decent?
-Speakers that require intense room treatments to sound great. The most realistic sounding speaker will sound good in most rooms because of the way it interacts naturally.
-speakers that have poor measurements somewhere. While it's tough to make a speaker that measures perfectly everywhere, it's still possible to eliminate the glaring flaws of most speaker designs. Most ultra high end speakers don't have very respectable measurements IMO. Unfortunately the reality is that you probably won't find many measurements of things that matter. You might find a waterfall and some on/off axis but that doesn't tell the whole story. You yourself need equipment to measure many, many different facets of your loudspeaker properly.
-speakers with a single dome tweeter. these usually suffer in dynamics.
Now finding something that fits all of the above criteria is tough, maybe impossible. Out of the speakers I listed earlier, the Wood Artestry Linkwitz Orion++ is probably the closest thing to fitting the criteria(although you need a bit of distance-from-wall). Even then we all know that it's not the perfect speaker, simply because there is no perfect speaker! And you may find that even if it were the most realistic "perfect" speaker in the world, you may still be unable to enjoy them because you've fallen into the trap of "speakers make the sound we hear" rather than "the sound itself was heard first by a microphone, speakers reproduce that"!
I've found that DIYers seem to (sadly) be more interested in making a minimal flaw speaker than even the better companies. They seem to prove time and time again that relentless engineering and understanding of data will make better speakers than taking a bunch of drivers, putting them in a box, and trying to figure out a crossover that sounds good to the ears of some disinterested reviewer and then selling it. the reason all these diyers don't stick to traditional box 3 way passive speaker designs doesn't seem that they're trying to be avant garde, but they recognize the issues, whereas companies, whether they recognize the issues or not, know that the market dictates the product, not the end result.