Hmm guess it's a toss up then. Better sound quality or louder lfe. So the 3806 specificly attinuates the lfe output if set to mains or is there an option for lfe when that is setup ?
Set the fronts to large, set the sub to "no" then connect as follows:
Pre-out L/R to DCX (simple RCA-XLR converter, the DCX ups the voltage for you). Split each L/R into HF/LF. Run out from DCX to L-HF (mains L), L-LF (L sub), R-HF, and R-LF.
The voltages coming out will be tuned for XLR. I'm not sure what an RCA amp does with such a high voltage without a stepdown first.
As for your bass modifiction in the Denon, you can program it in the DCX, no problem (and bass-freq correction, such as Audessy still works fine as that's preamp). If you want it sometimes and not others, save two profiles in the DCX and switch between them. A little bothersome if you change modes very frequently, but it's my recommendation.