Thanks again JV. I think that first one is more in my price range (or else I would have spent $100 more on a sub! ;-)
Until I go that route, I did get a little brave and started tweaking the EQ settings in my Onkyo receiver.
Awhile back, someone suggested that I cut-off anything 30hz or lower, but when I did, I lost too much bass and it didn't effect the chuffing enough. I put that idea in the back of my mind, since I didn't like the results.
But last night, I had a genius idea (that's sarcasm --- can't believe I didn't do this earlier).
I lowered 25hz frequencies as much as I could (The closest to 30hz I could get in the Onkyo 605 EQ -- just like I tried before)... but this time, I bumped up all the other frequencies in the sub's range.
This allowed me to turn down the sub's levels a bit more, really cutting down on the <25hz freq's, while still keeping everything above that line relatively normal.
Short version is... Now my sub matches up well in volume to my other speakers, and has passed two major tests last night (Iron Giant and Dark Knight) with no chuffing.