I am off work today and have been reading up on the Dayton RS series.  As well as that O-Audio amp.  Thanks for that tip, I really like everything I have read about that amp, and the price thats on it.  
I have also read up on some other drivers I hadn't considered before, specifically, the Peerless XLS series.  
I honestly don't want to spend alot here.  $500 tops for the sub and amp, and thats up from the $400 I originally intended on spending.  I do not plan on having this be my final sub, mainly, a test to see if I can indeed do this.  I already have subs in my system (def tech powered towers with built in 8's and amps).  I will likely build 2 or 3 designs here and there until I am comfortable enough with my woodworking ability to finally build me a sub that I plan on keeping.  Right now I am looking at doing a sub with the Peerless XLS and a passive radiator.  Trying to mimic the look of the best sounding sub I have heard myself, the Klipsch RSW-15.  I imagine that I will end up going with 15's eventually.  But for now, I don't have a large enough room to need anything with that much output, or size.