Hey Steve,
Me, when I feel like you do, I don't ask others' opinions in some audio forums.
I jump in my convertible sport car, and I visit all the high end audio stores, and listen to all their new and of interest speakers. One or two audio stores per day. And I do that for a couple weeks.
So, I end up listening to some great recordings and all the newer and greatest speakers, during a two-week period of a very pleasant time. Plus I know exactly myself, from my own set of ears, where the new trend and best sound, seems to emanate from.
I'll recommend that you do something similar. Plus anytime, I want to bring a pair of speaker at home, no problem, I'm quite in good shape with all the dealers. When you leave a large cash deposit, it helps to bring these babies home.

I got my big truck for the transportation of them.
Take care Steve,
Bob