Is the best receiver the one you really love to have or the one you own now?
Me, I love all my previous receivers (Kenwood, Pioneer, Marantz, Yamaha, Denon and few others), and the last two ones are THEE ONES.
I don't want the Lexicon RV-9 or Yamaha RX-Z11 or Denon AVR-5308ci or Pioneer Elite SC-09 or NAD T 785 or Integra DTR-9.9; first, because I cannot afford them, so I stay realist with my objectives and true needs. And second, because with my Onkyo TX-SR805 and TX-SR876, I got two very satisfying receivers. And soon with an Emotiva XPA-3, I should be all set.
And at the great value I got all my receivers, I don't have a choice, but to love them. And I take my time before I buy. And I check all around for reviews, and forums too.
So, in the end the best receiver is the one that you are willing to pay for (and 90% of the time, you will end up paying less), and the one you enjoy listening music and watching movies with. Great thrills and great emotions that you get from it. Great pleasure in your ears.
Why complicate life by checking at the neighbour, when all the joy is in your own backyard.
That's my way of seeing things.
Bob
* Price is not important, only Peace is.