My point is that anyone and everyone can still "buy" it, even though its not in stock.
Yes, you can still buy them and they will ship in the order in which orders are received. When we sell out, we take backorders just like any other internet store.
Your order did come in right after we sold out of these. We have dozens of these on order from Yamaha - and were expecting more last week but they have not shipped and we currently have no ETA on when we will get them. We do not drop-ship any Yamaha products - they ship from our Michigan warehouse. We do our best to maintain inventory status on the site, but as others have mentioned it can be extremely difficult to keep this updated in real-time.
As far as your order is concerned, we can offer you a few options for the inconvenience that this delay has created: 1. a free upgrade to the RX-V663 (in stock) or RX-V665 (not yet released, ETA is currently early April). 2. a refund in the meantime, and charge your card when the RX-V565 you ordered is ready to ship, along with a free YDS-11SL iPod dock. 3. a full refund if you would rather cancel the order.
I think that you will find we are the most accomodating store in the industry, and will always offer a free shipping or product upgrade when we feel we have made a mistake.