how would I use a DCX if I am using my receivers to power my mains and surrounds but am going to use a separate amp or amps for the subs? Am I only able to adjust and compensate for the subs? Should I invest in the DCX and look to turn my receiver into a pre amp and build my system into a multi external amp system? I love the sound of my receiver but I am sure the DCX could help but I also don't know if I can afford going to a multi amp system that sounds as clean without breaking the bank.
At first, you can use the DCX to apply room correction for the sub and to shape the LF roll off to sound as 'tight' as you like. You can control subjective tightness of bass with the DCX's functions.
When you can, add external amp for the mains and use the receiver as a pre-amp. You don't need to use the DCX for surrounds. The DCX has three inputs so you can use it for L, C and R, and set L and R to 'LARGE' so they get the entire frequency range. Use the DCX to route the proper frequencies. The DCX is a far superior xover to the one in any receiver, and it can provide far more options for optimal sound and integration. Today you can top notch transparent amplifiers for not too much money. For example, a Yamaha P2500S will put a solid 250 watts into 2 Ohms, both channels driven, 20Hz-20,000Hz, or 310 into 4 Ohms. It has no fan noise. It has a superb signal to noise ratio. It is a top quality device and will offer more solid amplification than your receiver can manage. Step up and get the P3500S and that's 350 x 2 into 8 Ohms. There is also a P5000S and P7000S. Pretty much any power scale you want is available.

In fact, I would probably recommend the P5000S or P7000S if you go stereo/dual subwoofers unless you don't mind opening up a Behringer EP2500 and doing a fan swap to make it silent from the listening position. The stock fan in that unit is loud.
But, if you don't want to move up to this quality/level of hardware, the O Audio 500W amps will be 'okay' for the Eclipse subwoofers.
-Chris