Thanks for all the suggestions!
I'm thinking about a few options.  It was so nice to watch movies in bed last night, but I miss the surround sound effect.  My boyfriend said I'm too obsessed and I don't need speakers in the bedroom.  
 
First, the guy at the electronics store indicated they have a denon that handles two displays and presumably two zones.  Maybe this would be a good option to keep all components in the living room and only have the display and a small 5.1/5.2 system in bedroom.  I still have to look into this option.  Anyone have thoughts on this one?  I don't know what would happen in this case if we wanted to watch cable on both TVs.
Second, we could setup the receiver, cable box, and a blu ray/DVD player in the bedroom and only connect the PS3 when playing games.  I know my standard DVD players don't produce loads of heat, so this may work.  Then, I'd add a small/quiet fan by the receiver just to provide a good amount circulation and open the door as needed.
Third, I'll setup a fan to vent outside.  This would be hard to install due to the sloped ceilings and configuration of the attic above.  I would like to avoid this if possible and if it means no permanant PS3 in the bedroom, then I think that is what I'd prefer.
Anyways, today he is installing an outlet behind the TV to avoid wires.  I'm so happy, but I'll be happy once I have some small speakers.  Now I need to research those some.