Mini-hijack: 805 gives you
-XT version of MultiEQ (at least 8x the filtering rez of vanilla MEQ)
-Burrbrown DAC (same model used in the $7k Denon AVP)
-beefy Ultra rated isolated, push-pull amp
The 806 gets you Dyn EQ/Vol.
So if you can crank it whenever you want, or have an acoustically challenged room, go 805. If sharing walls w/ neighbors, or sleeping kids, go 806.
The PS3 is the only BDP that is a video gaming console. There is no comparison, if you use that. Its a fine player. Other players might be more convenient for particular audio setting/switching, and perform better in test shootouts.... but ... well... the PS3 is a special thing.
OTOH, you can always add a secondary standalone. My friends BD drive in his PS3 died after a year, but he used it for EVERYTHING...
edit: oh, btw, I own both Onkyo and NAD.