parenting advice needed.

unreal.freak

unreal.freak

Senior Audioholic
Ok, here comes one of the many questions i will have as a new parent. How long did you keep your newborn at home before carring he/she out into the world and why? I want to take my 14 day child out but im not sure if its healthy for her or not. Any advice is welcome. C'mon TLS, let me have it! :p:D

Thanks,
Tommy
 
MinusTheBear

MinusTheBear

Audioholic Ninja
I have never heard of fresh air doing harm to a baby. The only time I would be hesitant would be to bring them out in any extreme weather (too hot, too cold or raining) at such an early age. Morning in Florida I would think would be the perfect time for a stroll.
 
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zumbo

Audioholic Spartan
Congratulations!

I would say six weeks.;)

Anytime earlier, just be sure to protect the eyes.

And, of coarse, use common sense.

EDIT: Our baby loved sprinkles. 11 months now, and she has loved any water. Bath/baby pool/adult pool with me/rain.
 
MinusTheBear

MinusTheBear

Audioholic Ninja
If you are hesitant I would also talk to your doctor and get his/her opinion on the matter. Zumbo made an excellent point about protecting their eyes and body from direct contact with the sun.
 
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unreal.freak

unreal.freak

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Congratulations!

I would say six weeks.;)

Anytime earlier, just be sure to protect the eyes.

And, of coarse, use common sense.

EDIT: Our baby loved sprinkles. 11 months now, and she has loved any water. Bath/baby pool/adult pool with me/rain.
If you are hesitant I would also talk to your doctor and get his/her opinion on the matter. Zumbo made an excellent point about protecting their eyes and body from direct contact with the sun.

Im trying to get a good idea when its ok to take my baby out to areas where there will be crowds and what not. Like Church, restaurant, grocery store, etc. you both bring up good points and very good advice...thanks :)

Peace,
Tommy
 
unreal.freak

unreal.freak

Senior Audioholic
Ill also add that in the last week My wife and i spent 10 to 12 hours in the ER, due to serious complications she had after having the baby. i picked up a sore throat, and sinus congestion in the whole ordeal. Wouldnt there be as much risk of my baby getting sick from me, as from a stranger in public.

The wife had a severe case of Anemia and they thought it was congestive heart failure, until they were able to run the proper tests to rule it out. she was admitted back into e hospital for a few days. We had a rough go of it since Friday 10-17-08. We were quite relieved when they told us it wasnt congestive heart failure.

Peace,
Tommy
 
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zumbo

Audioholic Spartan
Your baby will be sick all the time. It's just God's way of building-up their immune system.

We just had tubes put in our daughter's ears yesterday. We hope this will stop the ear infections.

Great products we recommend.
Babybanz sunglasses
Aveeno sun block
Aveeno bath
Britax car seats/after infant carrier
Prince Lionheart BeBe Pod
Fisher Price Papysan swing
A&D ointment
 
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pzaur

pzaur

Audioholic Samurai
Your baby will be sick all the time. It's just God's way of building-up their immune system.
Not entirely true. My little one who just turned one has been truly "sick" for 2 days. Both my wife and I teach elementary school. Imagine the germs we each bring home daily. I rarely am sick while my wife is routinely sick every two months. I'm guessing that Lauren got my immune system.

Just use common sense. Even before antibiotics and modern medicine babies were carried around everywhere. We still prevail to this day on Earth. I've known people who have brought their days old child out into public view. Just beware of the grandparents who feel that they can touch any child they see because they are grandparents. Be protective. Don't worry about being rude to strangers. They're the one's who were rude when they thought they had any right to touch your child without asking!

-pat
 
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zumbo

Audioholic Spartan
Not entirely true. My little one who just turned one has been truly "sick" for 2 days. Both my wife and I teach elementary school. Imagine the germs we each bring home daily. I rarely am sick while my wife is routinely sick every two months. I'm guessing that Lauren got my immune system.-pat
Wow. Well, our baby had to start daycare at six weeks. She has been sick about once every other month.

I usually never get sick. I have been sick about three times in the past eleven months.

When I complain to friends about our baby coming home sick, everyone states that is what happens with daycare. But, they say if you don't use daycare, the child will start the sick spells when they start school. I have been told that the daycare child will have their immune system built-up by then, and not suffer near as much.
 
annunaki

annunaki

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I have not checked many studies on it as of yet , but I bet that infant/child sickness began increasing when children began eating formula out of the womb rather than breast milk. It is loaded with natural immunities that the child acquires from the mother. Thankfully my wife has done this with our boys. Did I mention it is A LOT cheaper too?
 
billy p

billy p

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Ok, here comes one of the many questions i will have as a new parent. How long did you keep your newborn at home before carring he/she out into the world and why? I want to take my 14 day child out but im not sure if its healthy for her or not. Any advice is welcome. C'mon TLS, let me have it! :p:D

Thanks,
Tommy
Hey Tommy just let your parental instincts determine when that time is? IMO anytime is a good time as long as your prepared for the elements, just do what comes natural.:)

All the best, Bill:)

PS: Wow those Gators look good:D
 
TLS Guy

TLS Guy

Audioholic Jedi
Ok, here comes one of the many questions i will have as a new parent. How long did you keep your newborn at home before carring he/she out into the world and why? I want to take my 14 day child out but im not sure if its healthy for her or not. Any advice is welcome. C'mon TLS, let me have it! :p:D

Thanks,
Tommy
Your baby will be fine going out with you. Babies are resilient. Just remember they loose heat quicker than adults, and need wrapping up well to protect from the cold. Their heads are a larger percentage of surface area than older children and adults. So take care to prevent heat loss from the head.

When you travel make sure our baby is correctly strapped in to a properly approved and installed car seat.
 
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zumbo

Audioholic Spartan
I have not checked many studies on it as of yet , but I bet that infant/child sickness began increasing when children began eating formula out of the womb rather than breast milk. It is loaded with natural immunities that the child acquires from the mother. Thankfully my wife has done this with our boys. Did I mention it is A LOT cheaper too?
My wife is breast feeding, and has been for eleven months. We thought this was supposed to keep the baby from getting sick, or at least not as sick. Also, we thought this would keep her from getting ear infections. NOT!

Bottles continuously flow, where as the breast does not.

It is certainly the most important gift a mother can give her child.
 
unreal.freak

unreal.freak

Senior Audioholic
when we brought our baby home initially she was able to nurse for about 2 days before my wife started having complications. She was given contrast for a CT scan of her lungs. They did this test to rule out a blood clot. She was told not to breast feed for 2 days, so this could not pass on to our baby. At that time the baby had really only breast fed 1 full day after her milk came in. Then my wife was readmitted to the hospital for the tests to confirm or deny congestive heart failure. When we were in the hospital my wife talked to the Lactation Nurse. The chaces of our child picking up and continueing nursing after a week of bottle feeding, was very slim according to the nurse and a couple of Doctors. To our surprise when my wife returned home to our baby, the baby picked right up and continued breast feeding as if there hadnt been time away from it. The lactation nurse told my wife she had done a great job of pumping the milk and dumping it out even though she wasnt able to use it. Maybe this was one of the things that helped out under the circumstances.

TLS im going to doule check the installation of the car seat. Good tip man. We have been taking the temp of our little one under her armpit. To confirm we are not causing her a temperature due to overdressing. We have been keeping her swaddled and the thin hat from the hospital on her. So far her temp has been right on average.

Thanks,
Tommy
 
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unreal.freak

unreal.freak

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That looks alot easier than what ihave been doing :D
we have been using the drop in system so the only thing we have been needing to sterylize are the nipple and caps. Ive been boiling water and then emersing the stuff in that. It gets tiresome after many feedings with the bottle. Im glad our little one is back to breast feeding. Ill prolly have to start all of that again when we have to use daycare.

Thanks Man!!

Hey Tommy just let your parental instincts determine when that time is? IMO anytime is a good time as long as your prepared for the elements, just do what comes natural.:)

All the best, Bill:)

PS: Wow those Gators look good:D

The Gators looked real good!! Go Gators!! *does the Gator chomp*

Peace ..\/,
 
TLS Guy

TLS Guy

Audioholic Jedi
My wife is breast feeding, and has been for eleven months. We thought this was supposed to keep the baby from getting sick, or at least not as sick. Also, we thought this would keep her from getting ear infections. NOT!

Bottles continuously flow, where as the breast does not.

It is certainly the most important gift a mother can give her child.
Breast feeding does indeed reduce, (note not eliminate), the incidence of infection.

The first feedings from the colostrum, contain lymphocytes and highly active gamma globulins from an immunological standpoint. These feedings convey passive immunity to the infant and help train the infants immune system correctly. The gut is quite porous to large molecules in the first months of life, and the longer foreign proteins from food products are delayed the better, up to a year.

Gamma globulins are transferred readily during the first year of life. However the most active feedings from an Immunological stand point are the first colostrum feedings.

The eccentric Doyen of pediatrics at Guys hospital used to say, "breast milk has the right ingredients, at the right temperature, and comes in a beautiful container!"

I think I understand from your comments that you child has been prone to ear infections.
As far as ear infections in the first year of life is concerned that is unusual.

My first comment is to make sure they really are ear infections. Unfortunately there is a class of medic out there, that can't distinguish the intense light reflex of the infants ear drum from infection.

If ear infections really are occurring in the first year of life it is usually due to patulous eustachian tubes associated with certain craniofacial characteristics. The problem is that the tubes are relatively horizontal and the sphincter allows reflux of nasal material into the ears. This problem is almost always self limiting, and the child can be tidied over with prophylactic antibiotics after the condition is definitively diagnosed.

The recurrent ear infections, that plague so many children from about 18 months to seven years of age, are due to the opposite problem of failure of the eustachian tubes to open, creating closed spaces in the middle ear cavities.

For chronically recurrent cases the placing of tubes or grommets to ventilate the middle ear cavity, in the tympanic membrane to tide the child through the difficult years is useful.
 
speakerman39

speakerman39

Audioholic Overlord
Ill also add that in the last week My wife and i spent 10 to 12 hours in the ER, due to serious complications she had after having the baby. i picked up a sore throat, and sinus congestion in the whole ordeal. Wouldnt there be as much risk of my baby getting sick from me, as from a stranger in public.

The wife had a severe case of Anemia and they thought it was congestive heart failure, until they were able to run the proper tests to rule it out. she was admitted back into e hospital for a few days. We had a rough go of it since Friday 10-17-08. We were quite relieved when they told us it wasnt congestive heart failure.

Peace,
Tommy
Tommy, I am so very sorry that I missed this. Really sorry to hear about everything that is going on my friend. Hope your wife is doing alright. I also hope you and Kira are doing well. Will keep you all in my prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do. After reading this thread, I noticed that many have given great advice. I have said it before and will do so again-this forum has a lot of good people. This is why I prefer audioholics to all others. ;);)

Cheers,

Phil
 
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zumbo

Audioholic Spartan
We missed the first feedings as our child was in NICU and being fed by IV. My wife did pump, and save the colostrum, but it was very little.

Tubes were put in Friday for her ears. We had a total of four or five ear infections. I am on the fence about the Pediatritian at this moment. However, the ENT doctor was top-notch.
 
haraldo

haraldo

Audioholic Warlord
Ok, here comes one of the many questions i will have as a new parent. How long did you keep your newborn at home before carring he/she out into the world and why? I want to take my 14 day child out but im not sure if its healthy for her or not. Any advice is welcome. C'mon TLS, let me have it! :p:D

Thanks,
Tommy
What the he..... Are we supposed to bring the kids into fresh air too ===:-O
 
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