As a young woman growing up (yes, there are a few women on this forum!)
I think the art in architecture is to make something that LOOKS like it's going to fall down, but DOESN'T!!
My Dad was a pilot in the navy, and he really wanted me to follow in his footsteps. I told him no, I just didn't want to get screamed at constantly for things that weren't my fault (my youthful perception of what a military career would entail) .... so I did a general surgical residency instead!! Hmmm...frying pan....fire...
I see that you are a CCU doc-- None of your kids wanted to become MD's? Seems like there is a lot of polarity now with kids of doctors-- they either run screaming as fast as they can in the opposite direction of medicine, or they want to do it, too.
I've been poking around this forum for a few years-- I find it very informative, and frequently amusing as well. I've received nothing but good advice when I've asked for help, and have made quite a few purchases from forum members as I slowly build my HT. It's great to be able to tap into members with a wealth of experience and the willingness to teach.
Thanks again!