As stated above, you really shouldn't be using a headphone jack, which is 1/8" stereo as it has three sections to the connector called the tip, the ring, and the shield. The tip is typically red, the ring is typically black, and the shield is the ground wire.... typically.
I would go with tip and shield if I had to go this route, but it would be far better to get a 1/8" mini MONO plug from your local Radio Shack. They often sell them as stand alone units that you can simply solder a wire onto. If that's a pain, they also have 1/8" mini-mono cables you can cut open and grab the TWO (not three) wires from.
This pic is great...
The second connector is what you want, the third is what most headphones have (1/8" not 1/4") and is stereo, the last is the 1/4" stereo jack.