I wholly agree with the first part. The second part, while I agree that there are many women I would rather never look at, it never brings me any joy to look at a topless man. I respect a fine physique in both genders...but I only enjoy the female physique...not that there's anything wrong with that.
But I agree. Many women may have hoarded the entrance to ogle some semi-nude male firefighters. Perhaps even some males...just not me.