To the Original Poster(OP)
I would recomend to you without a doubt to upgrade your sub. Room treatments could help. Nay, they will help. But in the end I think it would be like adding a sharp shooter kit to a .22, but you are hunting elephants. I would recomend a larger caliber weapon... AKA a more powerfull sub. If you want earth crumbling damage get one of the dual subs from SVS or Hsu top end with a turbo. I would scan the sub portion of the forum, then if you need more help start a thread there.
Now doubt think about treating the room, but I would first get a weapon of mass destruction more suited to your needs. Then you can worry about calibrating and setting it up.
As for size matters... I have seen dual 8" sub sustems put out so much SPL and low hz, I was amazed.... It's just plain nonsense, because the box and room was done so well.. but in the end, more will always get you more so long as you then take time to tweak it.
Real advice on subs... stay away from brick and mortar stores unless you really really know what you want. I think they are more deceiving with sub output than anything else.... It always pisses me off hearing someone talk about how this sub is the best it will do this etc.... especialy when you are in a sealed room that;s 10x10 for listening. If you have a local non chain shop that has a good rep, swing over there, but rarely are they HT minded... usualy more all about "audiophile" set ups.
If you want to look local, check out for some of the DD's from velodyne, or Bag end's best offerings. Hear the best you can then work down. It will mean you spend more today, but you then are not worried about down the road a year and come down with bad upgraditis... a few bucks now saves hundrdes down the road.