How about a "Wife doesn't understand" thread

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Roscoe

Enthusiast
Me too! My girlfriend wants the best possible picture and best possible sound. If that means moving furniture to "unorthodox" positions, so be it.
The funny part is my wife is REALLY into music. She sings and plays the piano. Yet when I get in HER van :))) I routinely find the speaker balance all dorked up; she doesn't even notice when one channel is completely missing. trying to concive here I need to move the sofa beacsue the sound field isn't right...yea, THAT'S gonna happen.
 
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Roscoe

Enthusiast
On a different note, grow some balls man :D. I had to take that jab.
Fair enough :). Problem is I moved her to Vegas (the job) against her Christian upbringing. I've used up a lifetime of bargaining chips. From now on it's "yes dear".
 
highfihoney

highfihoney

Audioholic Samurai
Problem is I don't have the skills necessary to do a good job of running speaker wires to the back of the room, and can't afford to have a professional do it. Either way, it would pain me to go to either that much effort or cost only to find out that the speaker locations don't work.
Aw c'mon man,there is a way to get the job done with very little or no skills,maybe not a pro job but a job that will look like a pro did it to both your family & guests.

Do you have a basement,if so you simply drill a hole behind your system leading into the basement & other holes above where the speakers will be,run the wires & use cable staples to secure the wires to the bottom of the floor joists.

No basement,no problem as long as you have carpet,simply remove the trim around your carpet,run the wires along the baseboards & bring the wire out where the speakers will be,this approach requires that you rent or buy a carpet kicker,they cost about $15 a day to rent from Home Depot.

No carpet,still no problem,wires can be easily hidden behind corner mouldings,simply run the wires to the nearest corner then run the wire up the corner,then along the ceiling to the point where speakers can be mounted from the ceiling,then install corner mouldings over the wires.

In any case any of these options will take you less than an 8 hour day to accomplish.

You cant tell me that you cant muster the skills to accomplish atleast one of these options:D
 
highfihoney

highfihoney

Audioholic Samurai
Man, sound like most of you aren't married :)
Nope,married here for close to 25 years,i think alot of the tough guy talk is all bs though;)

Seriously though my wife never freaks out about any of the stereo crap,unless you count the time i threw away her brand new love seat to fit corner horns in the room:eek:,or when i had to modify(cut holes) in the ceiling so i could bring in speakers that were too tall:D
 
Davemcc

Davemcc

Audioholic Spartan
Nope,married here for close to 25 years,i think alot of the tough guy talk is all bs though;)

Seriously though my wife never freaks out about any of the stereo crap,unless you count the time i threw away her brand new love seat to fit corner horns in the room:eek:,or when i had to modify(cut holes) in the ceiling so i could bring in speakers that were too tall:D
I think Roscoe could learn a lot from you.
 
Davemcc

Davemcc

Audioholic Spartan
From now on it's "yes dear".
This has been haunting me ever since I first read it. The implications are truly disturbing. I mean, five years from now, it's not going to be "yes dear", it's going to be "I wish I was dead".

On the bright side, Vegas is the #1 spot in all the world to lose your current wife and audition your next one.;)
 
Dude, you need to get smart.

Point #1 - corner placement not only sucks, it's tacky. TACKY. I can't stand those types of rooms as they remind me of the 80s style arrangements when sectional sofas ruled the day (no offense to anyone with sectionals). And yes you can still buy them... along with conversion vans and disco balls.

Point #2 - paint and spackle. Crown moulding can hide wires like nothing else can. New paint and crown can be a fun project for you and your wife. She can pick the color and you can get a nice pile of leftover paint to fix up the two small holes made for speaker wire to poke out from (when you sell the house). Use flat paint. The room gets crown, you get properly placed surround speakers. I did the crown thing here:
http://www.audioholics.com/buying-guides/reference-systems/reference-system-2/building-a-moderately-priced-ht-the-build-out

Point #3 - If none of this works then you seriously need to grow a pair and work on your give and take relationship. lol
 
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Reorx

Full Audioholic
What I would do, is find a local shop, and ask to audition some in wall speakers. Then when the wife is not watching, mark in pencil or crayon where you'd place the speakers, and break out a Reciprocating Saw. (dont actually cut yet).

Leave the speaker, and saw in plain sight in the room, and go take a nap.

She'll see everything, and hopefully will realize that either the room layout changes, you start cutting, or the two of you need to talk about 'other' arrangements. Maybe give her $500 to go shopping, if you can re-arrange the room.
 
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BabelFish

Full Audioholic
and people wonder why the divorce rate is so high lol :)
 
ParadigmDawg

ParadigmDawg

Audioholic Overlord
I redid my whole set up one night when my Wife was at "girls night out".

I was scared when I heard her pull into the driveway since I had cut holes in the walls and ceiling and moved everything to a different wall but she liked it!
 
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