Quit playing word games. What you described was "capitualtion", pure and simple.
I agree with most of what you say...but consider this:
Most negotiations end up with some type of compromise, whether from one just one party or all parties.
How many can you name where all compromises came from one side?
Now, we're not talking a back-alley mugger or a gropp of thugs ganging up on an old lady. We're talking a civilized negotiation.
One of the most favored sayings of judges and mediators alike is the mark of a good settlement (negotiation), is one where both parties feel dissatisfied...because they feel they give up more...or walked away with less than they rightfully should have. Thus, the very people in the business of negotiations feel that justice (at least rough justice) is served when both parties feel jilted. In their opinion, this is a good negotiation.
And, this is exactly what I said in my post.
But not all negotiations end up that way. Sometimes one party wants an unreasonable amount. Sometimes a party is willing to give more for a greater good, and can see a better result at the end of the tunnel if this immediate issue can be resolved.
The point of diplomacy is not who gets more or who gets less. The point of diplomacy is to resolve the issue in order to avoid further conflict.
So, the essence of your word games here are the words "more or less", is it?
Well, believe it or not, the winner gets "more" of what he wanted when he entered into the negotiations and the loser "less", although these more/less terms may apply to any of many different issues that are under discussion and a clear-cut overall winner or loser may be difficult to determine.
The only way to avoid conflict if for both parties to go into the negiotiation in "good faith" ( another word for your vocabulary) and to accept the deal that was agreed to. If neither can come to an accord, then precious diplomacy fails.
So, to sum it up, diplomacy IS negiotiations, although it may be dressed better and meet at fancy dinner parties.
As I stated earlier, I believe we have lost the art of diplomacy in America, let alone the very concept. So many people miss this fact, especially in this day and age of overlitigation and resolve first by lawsuit.
No, we've not lost the art of diplomacy. We've just about given away the farm already and yet people still want more. NAFTA, anyone? Outsourcing jobs, anyone?
That we are about giving with no return should not be seen as a lapse of diplomacy, but more of drawing a line in the sand.
And, as for your use of the term "litigation", are you trying to induce a discussion of tort reform? You're weaseling again and trying to change the subject. You do that when you wind up on the losing end of your own arguments.
Let's keep it to Cuba, shall we? The boys seem, to be doing a fine job on correcting you on your erroneous beliefs about Cuba all on their own.
I only jumped in here to disabuse you of your incorrect applications of the words "negotiation" and "compromise", with a dash of "capitulation" and "good faith" thrown in for good measure. Good words to know the meanings of when throwing them around in internet arguments.