Wow, missed this thread!
I too am a fan of Totems, as you may see I have a pair of Rainmakers in my two channel setup which I love. They are critical of recording quality though, as are many good speakers IMO. While I love everything about the Rainmakers for music, I'm not sure I'd choose them as a home theater speaker.
Not sure what it is, but I have yet to find a speaker that I'd say is perfect for both, although I've heard some I'd certainly use either way if I could afford them. That includes some higher end Totems and beyond that some Aerials. Focal would also be on my shortlist for a speaker to perform double duty for home theater and music playback. I much prefer Focal or say PSB to the Paradigms for music, for home theater it's less of a concern but I'd still go for something else personally.