She wasn't famous for her high moral ground, great accomplishments or her ability to garner the respect of others. Everything she was famous for, even in death, was for doing something stupid or just "un-lady" like to put it nicely.
The most famous things she did was pose in Playboy and marry a 80+ old billionaire. Everything else revolved around those two acts.
Respect the family she left, sure by all means they'll need all the help they can get. But let's not make the lady into just another poor soul that Hollywood and fame has done wrong.