Intriguing. So I wonder would the work around would be to allow for loud continuous play?
1. Crossover? ( adding something to block or lower the high frequency )
2. More tweeters? ( Like McIntosh Labs or Tekton Design )
3. Or as you previously stated, just do not play it loud.
4. ?????
The problem with multiple tweeters is that it upsets dispersion and they interfere with each other. A line source has merit, but you have to listen at a great distance.
Higher cost tweeters do have higher power handling capacity as a rule.
The bigger issue is the crossover frequency and the order of the high pass crossover.
Obviously the higher the crossover the better. However many speakers have to be crossed to the tweeter at relatively low frequencies. In addition the crossover order has to be determined largely by the acoustic responses of the drivers.
You have also to remember that turning down the volume is highly effective, as every three db. reduction reduces power to the drivers by 50%.
I was able to solve my center speaker issue, as there was a different crossover solution so I could increase roll off by 6db. per octave below 2.5KHz. That has solved the problem. However unless you design and build your own speakers that is not an option.
Avoiding music with high built in distortion is a wise move. Adding nasty high end distortion to instruments is an abomination, and not pleasing to he ear. It is ugly banal music and most unpleasant.