Are you old enough to remember loudness contours on receivers? Dynamic eq is like that but better, in that it varies the eq with volume rather than just being a fixed amount like on the old receivers (DEQ cuts out at reference volume altho you can adjust the reference level offset manually too). I don't use Audyssey's Dynamic Volume, but do use DEQ quite a bit.
I just would let Audyssey handle the delays (distance) and levels, I've had no need to use an spl meter to change it. Yes, I've seen something about the eq thing but its pink noise and if just setting level I doubt it really makes much difference if its eq'd or not.
So where did Audyssey set your sub trim levels? How did you set each for dB at the beginning of the routine?