I've not bought the Hsu get. This is in preparation, so I can see whether I want to.
As for my wife, it can be a challenge being married to a highly sensitive woman. For me, the benefits far outweigh the challenges. She's so kind and caring, and truly one of the best people I've ever known. And it can be hard to deal with her sensitivities, which go well beyond music. No swearing in our home. No violent movies. In fact, I need to be careful talking about the news because if she hears of something tragic it can stay with her for days. Last week, when the Israelis and Palestinians were blowing each other up, I found her crying in the shower one morning. I asked what was wrong and if I could help. She said, "No, I'm really upset about what's happening to children in the middle east and I just need to cry." Sometimes she gets upset spontaneously, knowing there are people without clean water in Africa and other regions. Or that people are getting killed in war zones or starving in refugee camps. It's not easy to be so sensitive in a world full of conflict.
But that's part and parcel of who she is. Her sensitivity results in her being a sweet gem of a person. Someone who cares deeply about our son, about me, about our relatives and friends. About everyone. And I can't leave out that she's a wonderful wife. That's why I really want to make this work for her. She'll go right up to the edge trying to accommodate my needs and I don't want that. I'd sooner not listen to music when she's around.