What is your budget?
Paradigm usually have a smile curve with a modest boost in the bass and treble.
I need to ask the obvious - have you tried putting the grills on the speakers (if you have them off)?
What about adjusting the tone controls? I don't know your AVR, but most have a manual EQ.
I always thought the monitors were pretty nice for what they cost (especially since much of Paradigm is over-priced).
But to answer your question, the first speaker that comes to my mind is the Elac DBR-62 for $600/pr.
Get it from Crutchfield and you can return it within 60 days if you don't like. They pay return shipping and you only are out a $15 restocking fee.
Bookshelf speakers
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This is a review and detailed measurements of the Elac Debut Reference DBR-62 bookshelf speaker. It was kindly purchased new and drop shipped to me for testing. The DBR-62 costs US $600 a pair from multiple sources/dealers. The DBR-62 comes in black and walnut finish or the distressed Oak and...
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