You may be confused about what the guy at McIntosh said.
There is a correct protocol for doing this. We have this post again and again, and I'm loosing count as to how many times I have gone over the correct procedure.
This is the correct wiring going from RCA to XLR.
So to go RCA to XLR like you wan't to do you need the top connection.
On the other hand if you are going XLR to RCA you need the lower connection. These are what is known as floating lines.
However line voltage XLR is around 2 volts and for RCA I volt. So there is a 3 db discrepancy. This may require an active converter if this imbalance of gain structure is an issue.
I wonder if a mod could make this a sticky as I'm tired of having to go over this again and again.