Nothing? *fractured half smile
I may be putting words in OPs mouth... apologies... but I think he's saying that what the AVR is doing is "breaking" the experiences he is expecting.
@fabiocz your 3rd option above is different than the first two. I agree the first two look same. Third has your 5 channel bed layer in the standard configuration. But the Rear Heights are different than what you called Surround Height above.
Dolby's Atmos recommendations are different than those, and maybe easier to acheive what you are looking for if simple Atmos would suffice. Top Front and Top Rear placement is best for that.
Please clarify your location as that might allow better answers from us!